Engagement / Marriage / Divorce

How often do we find couples interested in examining & reflecting on their relationships? The physical considerations such as the wedding party, the purchase of the house etc. mostly dominate the couples' concerns.

The person who consults me over a period of time begins to understand what, has led him to his unhappiness & misfortunes in his education & conditioning. The true purpose of the consultation is to help him or her return to his true self & achieve a balance with Life. Through your body’s ability to feel what is harmonious & right as well as what is not, you will know the true direction to take in every moment & in any circumstance.

There are some excellent books out there that are very useful, however in my experience no book is able to provide a full answer & guide. It is the relationship within the therapeutic encounter plus the great translations others have generously given us that provides the mutative factor. This resolves the basis for the original distress & conflict & inner & outer harmony is restored. It all starts inside of you. It’s about discovering what goes on in you from the moment you experience or perceive something to the moment you respond. Though it might be just a split second, you cycle through a range of thoughts, feelings, hopes & needs. When you’re connected to yourself, you can connect to others.

The willingness to ask the question: “How can I see this differently?” Would take you a long way down the road of connection & harmony. With more knowledge & insight about how you really function, a whole new level of clarity & relatedness opens up.

Marriage

At Insight Psychotherapy Centre you will learn to love & appreciate the things you have, rather than enviously yearning for whatever. To be aware & appreciative of the moment, to feel connected, to share yourself, & what you have, is closely bound up with feelings of joy & happiness. To my mind, this savouring of an experience is what "living in the moment" is about.

Eventually connection, clarity, loyalty to others & yourself, & new insight all come together, healing & transformation happen in you & with others. Your relationships become alive & fulfilling. Gone are the days of compromise, giving in, or being manipulative.

So whatever stage you are at, whether Engaged, Married or contemplating Divorce, you can contact me & together we will throw light on the problems & you will become authentic, gain integrity & achieve sovereignty over your life.